If you really want to know how to get a girlfriend, the quickest shortcut is discovering how to impress a girl.
When you know how to impress a girl, or more broadly, how to impress girls generally, you know how to make yourself attractive to them.
Once a girl is impressed by you, you have to work far less hard to get her to interested more romantically in you.
You may not think you’re impressive now, but all you need to do is follow the steps below, and you’ll have solved how to impress a girl with impressive easy.
I recommend reading through all of these 4 steps to find your absolute favorites…
Why Is Knowing How To Impress A Girl So Important?
The introduction really spells this out for you: if you want a girl to like you, it’s much easier to first get her impressed by you.
If she is impressed, she’s far more likely to find you attractive and to be receptive to your interest.
If you learn how to show off what is impressive about you, you also build up more confidence in yourself and more assertiveness about how you feel, which is again, far more attractive to most girls.
All in all, it’s easier for you to get a girlfriend and find romantic success if you learn how to impress girls and how to be impressive yourself.
What do you do well? Maybe your first reaction is “nothing,” but that isn’t really the case. Are you funny? Do you know everything about movies? Are you better than anyone at some weird skill?
These things may not seem impressive to you in a day-to-day situation, but they really can be for the right girl.
Maybe you don’t feel it’s particularly impressive that you’re smart, but there are actually lots of girls that love smart guys.
Maybe you don’t think it’s very cool that you collect butterflies or stamps, but those can actually be very interesting subjects if you present them in the right way.
Take a moment to think about yourself and build yourself up. Think about what you love and what you know and what you do well, then move on to Step 2 to find out how to sell it.
You want to find a low-key way to show off and show your impressiveness in the right light. So, start by impressing a girl in the easiest way possible: be nice, be direct, and be confident.
Girls like confident guys who treat them well. It sounds obvious, and yet most guys miss out on this obvious way to improve their standing.
Once you’ve done that, work on finding a way to mention your talents without drawing too much attention. Throw out an interesting fact about your interests when talking to a girl, or invite her out to see you play the sport you shine in.
One of the worst things you can do if you’re trying to find out how to impress girls is to oversell yourself and then under-deliver.
Don’t tell a girl you’re a gym rat and then pull a hamstring racing her to the car.
When you want to impress a girl, the rule should always be to be as humble as possible while still showing off your impressive qualities.
And focus in on that “show” element. She’ll be more impressed if she finds out you’re really fast if you demurred a bit and pretended you were just an okay runner.
Struggling to find a way to show off our impressive qualities? Then learn how to impress a girl just through your conversation.
This is actually a fairly easy way to impress a girl. Just pick out some interesting conversation topics beforehand that you can work into your conversation.
Ideally, these conversation topics can relate back to your impressive qualities in a no-big-deal sort of revelation, but they don’t have to.
Start by building a conversation around weird talents, for instance, which would allow you to lay out your talent after she’s revealed hers.
Or, move in a completely different direction and impress her with a deeper conversation topic about how language affects how we understand our every day life (a great one if you know another language or read a lot).
You can always start a funny conversation about pop culture topics or silly topics like which super power she would want or what Marvel character she’d want to be (a great way to flush out her secret nerd qualities).